• Children (8 to 12 years old)
  • Adolescents or youth (13 to 18 years old)
  • Families
  • Parenting
  • Couples and Partners whether dating, cohabitating, married,
    LGBT
  • Adults (over 18 years old)

Concerns, including . . .
  • Abuse history (e.g., physical, emotional, neglect, sexual)
  • Anger (e.g., aggression, arguing, arguing, hostility, irritability, temper
    problems, self-control difficulties, low frustration tolerance)
  • Anxiety (e.g., fears, nervousness, obsessions, compulsions  panic,
    perfectionism, phobias, separation anxiety, shyness)
  • Attachment (e.g., history of difficulty bonding or relating to parent or
    parents)
  • Attention problems (e.g., hyperactivity, impulsiveness, loss of control,
    outbursts, procrastination; Note if AD/HD, psychosocial aspects of the
    disorder)
  • Depression (e.g., crying, fatigue, isolating, low energy, low mood,
    sadness, tiredness, withdrawal )
  • Dependency (excessive for age)
  • Friendship and socialization problems (interpersonal conflicts,
    sensitivity to criticism or rejection)
  • Grief (e.g., mourning, deaths, loss of friends, home, family member,
    divorce, separation)
  • Guilt and shame (e.g., averts gaze, takes responsibility when not a
    problem, comments about self are negative)
  • Low self-esteem or inferiority feelings (e.g., puts self down, does not
    seem confident, has difficulty expressing needs)
  • Mood swings (e.g., mood changes from angry to sad or to happy)
  • Oppositional and/or defiant (e.g., won't mind or behave, argues with
    from adults, angry, disobeys rules, sometimes can be spiteful)
  • Self-harm and/or suicidal behaviors (e.g., cutting, burning, hitting self)
  • Sleep problems (if related to anxiety, depression, trauma; that is, not a
    medical or organic problem)
  • Trauma and traumatic stressors (e.g., car accident, divorce,
    separation, changes in family, home, schools)

Couples
  • Affairs and infidelity
  • Arguing, fighting, unproductive conflicts
  • Communication problems
  • Divorce and separation
  • Feeling like roommates or growing apart
  • Problems with trust

Families & Parenting Problems
  • Blended Families
  • Chores not being completed
  • Complaining & Whining
  • Disrespect & "Back talk"
  • Homework & School Problems
  • Meltdowns
  • Separation, Divorce
  • Sibling Conflicts
  • TV & Video Games
Max Stager
(719) 460-4185
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